Let’s Talk Holiday Cards (and Toddler Faces)

You know the scene. You’re knee-deep in December, toggling between toddler snacks, nap times, and the ever-growing list of things to do for the holidays. Somewhere in that swirl, it hits you: we need a holiday card photo. If you’re considering a holiday card photo session in Pittsburgh, it’s time to make those arrangements.

But the idea of getting your kids to sit still, look in one direction, and smile like they’ve never heard the word “no” in their lives? It doesn’t exactly sound like holiday cheer.

I get it. I’ve been there – both as a mom and behind the camera.

Just recently, I photographed a session with a family that had a 3-year-old and twin 2-year-olds (yes, three toddlers under four). Let’s just say the session wasn’t quiet. The twins were in full protest mode and wanted absolutely nothing to do with pictures. But we went with it. We played games, chased them around, and let them be who they were. By the end, despite all the chaos, Mom and Dad ended up with some gorgeous images they loved enough to use for their holiday cards. And honestly? That kind of heartfelt, real storytelling beats stiff smiles any day.

The Expectation vs. Reality of Holiday Photo Sessions in Pittsburgh to get Holiday Cards

When it comes to holiday cards, I know most families picture one thing: coordinated outfits, well-behaved children, everyone looking at the camera, smiling in perfect lighting.

Sometimes that happens. But more often what we get is a mix of moments – some cooperative, some surprise giggle-fits, and some… let’s just say unpredictable toddler energy.

And that’s the sweet spot. The photos that stand out most on a fridge full of cards aren’t always the posed ones. Often, the in-between frames – a sibling kiss, a belly laugh, or a quiet moment between cuddles – are the ones that stop people in their tracks.

So when families ask me for advice for planning their holiday card photos, I always say: let go a little. We’ll make space for that framed mantel-worthy photo, but we’ll also leave room for the magic that happens when you just let your kids be kids.

My Go-To Holiday Card Photo Session Tips in Pittsburgh

Whether it’s your first holiday card as a family or your fourth season wrangling two littles into sweaters, here are a few things I always recommend to make your session smoother and more joyful.

1. Choose Coordinating Outfits (Not Matching Ones)

I help all my clients with wardrobe planning because what you wear does influence how your final gallery looks. You don’t need matching red sweaters for a card to feel festive. Instead, aim for coordinated tones that complement each other while allowing for personality.

• Neutrals and soft earthy tones photograph really well and keep the focus where it belongs: on your connections.
• Avoid big logos or super bright neon colors. They can distract from the emotion in the images.
• Textures like knits or linen can add subtle visual interest without being overpowering.

2. Bring Bribes (No Shame Here)

Candy, a favorite toy, or a special post-shoot snack can go a long way in keeping toddlers on board. I always say it’s okay to let them have some fun incentives – after all, they’re working hard in their own toddler way to show up for the camera.

Just make sure to:

• Choose non-messy options (think Smarties or fruit snacks over chocolate)
• Keep the candy or toy hidden until we need to break it out as a treat

3. Let the Kids Lead

Toddlers are rarely still, and that’s not a bad thing. I don’t expect kids to sit and pose the whole session – actually, I prefer sessions where they can run, explore, and laugh.

Instead of trying to control every moment, I guide the energy by playing games, singing songs, or even turning the session into a bit of hide and seek. Somewhere in that playful mess, we get the shot that makes your heart skip a beat.

4. Trust That I’ve Got You

You do not need to know how to pose or “act natural.” I’ll quietly guide you, step in when needed, and give space when it’s time to just let the moment unfold. I always sneak in that classic everyone-looking photo for your card, but I also capture the in-between moments that tell a deeper story.

Leave the toddler wrangling and session flow to me – this part should feel like a break, not another task you’re managing.

Why It’s Worth It (Even When It Feels Like a Lot)

Planning a holiday card photo session during a busy season can feel overwhelming. But here’s the thing: these photos become part of the thread of your family’s story. They get tucked into albums, pinned on boards, held by grandparents and smiled at by friends you haven’t seen in a while.

And long after the bows are packed away and the cookies are gone, the photo of your toddler throwing their head back in laughter (or refusing to wear shoes, or snuggling into your shoulder with a shy smile) will remind you of exactly who they were in this sweet, chaotic season.

That’s something worth making time for.

Ready to Make a Holiday Card That Tells Your Real Story?

If you’re hoping for relaxed, beautiful, and heart-tugging images that celebrate this season – with or without toddler cooperation – I’d love to help.

Now is the time to reach out about scheduling a family session that fits into your rhythm (not adds to the stress). I’ll be there with outfit suggestions, candy game plans, and all the patience you need.

And don’t worry – we’ll get that card-worthy shot. But even more, we’ll get real, lovable moments of your family just as they are.

Want all the tips and tricks to get your toddler to smile during a session? Read by blog, “How to Capture Real Toddler Smiles.” Click here to read it.

Want to see some families having fun during their sessions? Click here to check out my portfolio.

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